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[kjpepper]

Today was a fair amount of moping and sulking punctuated by lots of TV on DVD. Lemme just say, the notion of releasing TV series to video box sets? Genius. I hope someone's making a ton of money off of that one.

The rest of the evening I've spent with sundart... mostly watching Buffy and wanting bits of Spike. Mmm, Spike. But we also had a talk beforehand, as I was depressed to the point of being barely able to talk when she got home from work... there are a few things stressing me out right now one of which being the whole wedding concept. I was kinda relieved to find out that its been worrying her as well, for many of the same reasons. To make a long story short there may be not a wedding per se in November. I think what we both felt was that a ceremony wasn't really a necessity for us... a wedding is such a welcometothenextlevelSEGA thing, and what we both more or less figured out is that we're already on that level (if not past it), and have been for years. The other thing is that, well, the other bit of a wedding is very much a "looky here, we're all coupleded now! In front of witnesses and everything." But really... we wouldn't be telling anyone anything new. She's mine, I'm hers... and you know what? Everyone, including us, already knows that. If the friggin' area bus drivers know the both of us well enough to ask after the other half whenever one gets on to go to work, having an actual wedding ceremony at this point in the game seems a little redundant, you know?

So, that's a bit of a load off. However, this year is still our tenth anniversary, and we still plan on throwing a right shiny shindig on the date we picked. And there still might be rings and weird legalities involved. There'll just be more party and less pageantry. Stay tuned.

There's other stuff that my head's been chewing on, but that's the big breakthrough of the night... which reminds me... I should try to get to work early tomorrow so I can scan some sketches for sapphorama...

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[austingoddess.livejournal.com]

Ya know, I married my best friend and her husband in a restaurant. We waited for our second witness, the harpist, to take a break so he could be there for their exchange of vows and to sign the license. Extremely low-key. You might find a licensed minister to be at your shindig so you can do a very low-tech exchange of vows right in the middle of the party at an unexpected time. Idea? Bueller?