looky a relationship meme!
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austingoddess. Yeesh, a lot of these questions are pertinent right now.
- Longest relationship:
10.5 years
- Shortest relationship:
depending on how you look at it it was either 2 weeks (each sold seperately) or 6 months.
- How many boyfriends/girlfriends have told you that they love you?
all of the ones I've had. I don't think I've had an official genderfriend that didn't.
- Have you ever thought that you were going to marry the person?
well, I go through the hearts flowers last name permutations and namings of whatever theoretical spawn with everyone I have dated seriously, so yes.
- Have you ever made a boyfriend or girlfriend cry?:
Yep.
- Are you happier single or in a relationship?
...In a relationship. Hard to tell though, I haven't been out of one since I was, oh, 17.
- Have you ever been cheated on?
Nope. anything outside was pretty much carried out with my encouragement/approval/lack of care.
- What is your favorite thing about the opposite sex?:
Opposite bah. Terminology aside, long eyelashes, dimples and a pinchable bootie on anyone gets my attention.
- Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes indeedly doodly
- Have you ever broken someone's heart?:
No one I was directly involved with anyway
- Talk to any of your ex's?:
All of them.
- Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
Depending on your patience level, maybe? I can be a selfish brat on occasion.
- Have you dated people who were not good to you?:
Yeah...
- Have you been in an abusive relationship?
harinezumi and I were vicious to each other at a couple of points in ours, but that's the closest I hope I'll ever come.
- Have you ever dated someone older than you?:
not by all that much.timarok was probably the oldest, by about 2 years
- Younger?:
morlock is a year and some odd younger than me, though you'd never be able to tell that. Most days I forget it too.
- Do you regret anything that you have done with a boyfriend or girlfriend?
At one point I would have said yes, but at this point the past is the past and most of the sins thereof have been forgiven, so fuck it. I carry around enough baggage as it is.
- Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?:
No. Doesn't stop me from handing them out like candy.
- Believe in love at first sight?
Not per se, but I do believe in that weird electric zing that can go through a person sometimes at unexpected eye contact.
- Ever dated two people at once?
I love my life.
- Ever been given an Engagement ring?:
Yes. Alas, it's too big right now so it's hiding in a jewelry box somewhere.
- Do you want to get married?
I am to one, and might as well be to the other so... if I didn't want to I'm a little screwed. Granted there's stuff about marriage as an institution that still make me go bleg, but I like the arrangement and commitments I have now.
- Do you have something to say to any of your exes?:
I've got their numbers/email addresses/IMs. I'm sure when I think of something I'll say it. :)
- Ever stolen someone's boyfriend or girlfriend?:
Depends on who you ask. If you ask me? No.
- Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?:
Sure.
- Do you still have feelings for any of your exes?
Oh I still love them in their own weird little ways. They know this, I know this, we're ok with it.
- Does heartbreak really feel as bad as it sounds?
Yes, but at the same time I feel like it's necessary sometimes, and can sometimes be relished. Anything coming back to life hurts, and hearts are like phoenixes, rising from the ashes again and again to love and feel and break and die over and over again. Part of the cycle.
austingoddess. Yeesh, a lot of these questions are pertinent right now.- Longest relationship:
10.5 years
- Shortest relationship:
depending on how you look at it it was either 2 weeks (each sold seperately) or 6 months.
- How many boyfriends/girlfriends have told you that they love you?
all of the ones I've had. I don't think I've had an official genderfriend that didn't.
- Have you ever thought that you were going to marry the person?
well, I go through the hearts flowers last name permutations and namings of whatever theoretical spawn with everyone I have dated seriously, so yes.
- Have you ever made a boyfriend or girlfriend cry?:
Yep.
- Are you happier single or in a relationship?
...In a relationship. Hard to tell though, I haven't been out of one since I was, oh, 17.
- Have you ever been cheated on?
Nope. anything outside was pretty much carried out with my encouragement/approval/lack of care.
- What is your favorite thing about the opposite sex?:
Opposite bah. Terminology aside, long eyelashes, dimples and a pinchable bootie on anyone gets my attention.
- Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes indeedly doodly
- Have you ever broken someone's heart?:
No one I was directly involved with anyway
- Talk to any of your ex's?:
All of them.
- Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
Depending on your patience level, maybe? I can be a selfish brat on occasion.
- Have you dated people who were not good to you?:
Yeah...
- Have you been in an abusive relationship?
harinezumi and I were vicious to each other at a couple of points in ours, but that's the closest I hope I'll ever come.- Have you ever dated someone older than you?:
not by all that much.
timarok was probably the oldest, by about 2 years- Younger?:
morlock is a year and some odd younger than me, though you'd never be able to tell that. Most days I forget it too.- Do you regret anything that you have done with a boyfriend or girlfriend?
At one point I would have said yes, but at this point the past is the past and most of the sins thereof have been forgiven, so fuck it. I carry around enough baggage as it is.
- Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?:
No. Doesn't stop me from handing them out like candy.
- Believe in love at first sight?
Not per se, but I do believe in that weird electric zing that can go through a person sometimes at unexpected eye contact.
- Ever dated two people at once?
I love my life.
- Ever been given an Engagement ring?:
Yes. Alas, it's too big right now so it's hiding in a jewelry box somewhere.
- Do you want to get married?
I am to one, and might as well be to the other so... if I didn't want to I'm a little screwed. Granted there's stuff about marriage as an institution that still make me go bleg, but I like the arrangement and commitments I have now.
- Do you have something to say to any of your exes?:
I've got their numbers/email addresses/IMs. I'm sure when I think of something I'll say it. :)
- Ever stolen someone's boyfriend or girlfriend?:
Depends on who you ask. If you ask me? No.
- Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?:
Sure.
- Do you still have feelings for any of your exes?
Oh I still love them in their own weird little ways. They know this, I know this, we're ok with it.
- Does heartbreak really feel as bad as it sounds?
Yes, but at the same time I feel like it's necessary sometimes, and can sometimes be relished. Anything coming back to life hurts, and hearts are like phoenixes, rising from the ashes again and again to love and feel and break and die over and over again. Part of the cycle.
